I purchased Lilian in silver and am wearing it since it arrived. I did not take it off once and that works fine for me. I was worried it would be a little too chunky, but it is not. It is also not super filigrane, I'd say something in between. As the closure is very thin and tiny, I was concerned it would rip way too fast. Did not happen so far. All in all I am happy with my purchase, though I hope I can wear it forever as it is – for my budget – rather on the pricier side.